"I don't know, it just happened," she said, rubbing her hands over Chang's ears again. "It's not like I was looking for a boyfriend when it happened, I generally, you know, don't look for boyfriends." In her experience, right up until Harry, boyfriends had mostly turned out to be total jackasses. Harry had been totally unexpected and it wasn't like she was about to start dating again, but she knew that dating usually led to either a breakup or something serious.