"None taken," Carla Jean replies with a huff of a laugh, shaking her head. "It ain't for everyone. At least you know it." She's known too many girls, at least peripherally, who got married because they thought they had to (or because they really did have no other choice). She doesn't see anything wrong with Kate's approach when at least she's up front about what she does and doesn't want. "Do somethin' casual, maybe. Ease into it. See if that works."